How would your conversations be different if you 'triple filtered' everything?
It would be a totally new conversation, because if you triple filtered every gossip you hear, instead of talking bad about some one you might just make it a habit of saying good things, and gossips that are not taken as an insult of hurting someone's feelings but instead are gossip that is just something nice to say, would turn around and make someone's day.
I'm sure you have been the victim of gossip at some point in time, even if you aren't aware of it. Knowing how it feels to be gossiped about, why do you think people choose to do it anyway?
I would say that those people that choose to gossip are just hateful persons that just don't know how to forgive some one. And they just like to keep on picking on someone, by gossiping bad things